Just a thought I had today…

I think it’s funny how some people feel like they can screw over the opposite sex for years then expect their dream companion to just fall into place whenever they are ready to settle down. A lot of people miss out on a great spouse because they are too immature to realize what a gem they have or are too focused on ‘playing the game’. GROW UP PEOPLE!

I am not ranting. Just jotting my thoughts on this since a lot of folks are bringing the topic up.

Folks keep asking me why I’m not married.

1. I’m in no rush

2. Because I don’t have to be

3. My BOAZ hasn’t found me yet

I’ve only ‘dated’ 2 men in my life. Put my heart in it and everything (Surprising) only to be let down at the end. That part of it sucks, but everything I’ve learned from it has made me such a better person. I know more about what I like and what I don’t like. Things I stand my ground on and things that I don’t mind compromising.

I know that I am a good woman so all I can really do is let life run its course. Some of my family members feel that, because I am getting close to my 30s, that magically I’m supposed to get married in the next year or so and start my own tribe. If it happens, cool. If not, I really don’t think my life will start some type of downward spiral.

I’ve lived. I’ve loved. I know that there is a wonderful man that was made to love me as I was made to love him. Therefore, I’m going to continue to hide myself in GOD so that my future king will have to seek him to find me. I’m worth the wait, and so is HE.

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